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# [[ibbu/its_story_time]] ([https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWILg92qLnJt12YjlGSHdGwobEac7S0KU other stories on YT])
# [[ibbu/try]]
# [[ibbu/Raising Securely Attached Children]]


==Notes and Links==
==Notes and Links==
# [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8hMtP399VY The Secret to Raising Good Kids | Dr Shadee Elmasry  Safina Society]
# Black children's advocate - Shaykh Adeyinka Mendes's wife [https://www.linkedin.com/in/rukayat-yakub-b7734b180/recent-activity/all/ Rukayat Yakub]
#:''Black Muslims and Black Muslim cultures are rendered invisible in so many Islamic children’s texts and multimedia productions.'' [https://www.linkedin.com/posts/rukayat-yakub-b7734b180_in-the-spirit-of-sharing-heartwork-winsnot-activity-7331656099982458899-Flcz?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAAAJdauQBkstFou7tuVHTRBeJZQjm6O2YYvM]
# When to start expecting privacy with my toddler? [https://chatgpt.com/share/680b80f4-fa4c-8001-9f99-423e7cd66f47]
# [https://drive.google.com/file/d/1y36sTWH1jpSmZJC_RsqQsZa87Iwb1ZJW/view?usp=drive_link Guardianship Will] [https://chatgpt.com/share/680722c3-13e0-8001-a254-219bb806ac98]
# https://old.reddit.com/r/SingleDads/comments/1juvtmo/dads_when_you_find_it_hard_to_explain_to_your/ (dad motivation)
# https://www.instagram.com/p/DGltdQFox4c/ (dad motivation)
# 2025.03.17 [[ChatGPT]]'s lessons and ideas from the Quran [https://chatgpt.com/share/67d8eb7e-30ac-8001-a8a7-1f244b0a8c28]
# [https://www.instagram.com/p/DF6sJA8N_3_/ heartwarming daughter and dad moment]
# Hadiths 2025.02.17
## https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2015/10/28/sufficient-sin-neglect-dependents/ [[hadith/neglecting dependents]]
## https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2013/02/23/love-allah-assured-each-other/
## https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2014/06/13/middle-shaban-forgive/
# [https://www.facebook.com/CLDInstitute/videos/513799392885995 Continuous Learning Development was live December 27, 2020 on the Disease of the Heart] [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FJVchfAMxyo] [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PqIrSNHCIQM]; [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLtkwiFqu7LWm3uKwKkd2kIclUJDjvp2U0 Psychological Wellbeing: The Islamic Perspective  by CLD_Institute]
# https://muslimmatters.org/2023/11/28/podcast-muslim-fatherhood-masculinity-beyond-the-manosphere-sh-mohammad-elshinawy/
## 14th min https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2015/10/28/sufficient-sin-neglect-dependents/
# I Met My Dad After 23 Years! - Mohammad Shoaib (Full Podcast)  IlmFeed Podcast  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0P15l9a52G0
## Divorced at 1 [https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxhEOtrx-JUbmBU7QRFgEORbrc1EeIOhvL?si=RDHON87MJ05ip-8r]... built up resentment and feelings of abandonment, internalized messages after 15/16 years old... [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0P15l9a52G0&t=1229s timestamp 20:29] - Reconciliation with absent father through Islam
## Bad interaction at 13 causing anxiety for further reconciliation...
## everydaydepths_official: For the dads who lead with strength and heart-thank you ❤️ [https://www.instagram.com/p/DDKxk_RxlWt/]
## [https://www.instagram.com/p/DGGk20Dsx20/ not doing a sunnah to incur a haram/sin...] [https://www.youtube.com/clip/UgkxtsSsq2zGzvh6BzZ1Vq-ACLfgz61UhlqH]
## https://www.youtube.com/@dadhoodDH/videos
## [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAfm-Z77aQA Mohammad Shoaib's Guide to Father and Child Bonding in Islam | Raising Believers Xtra  Fatima Barkatulla]
# [https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CTF79Ae8h68 😍💕I love you and I trust you✨💞 (cute baby girl)]
# [https://www.instagram.com/p/C6Ngk1hLycz/?igsh=MWdlMzFic2poeTZxNg== tafsir for kids ages 7-12]
# https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBRloh0kqdQ&t=28s  Ep 4 - The Importance of Saving - Raising Financially Literate Children with Wahed
# https://quranco.uk/blogs/quran-blog-media/fatherhood-and-10-key-verses-from-surah-luqman [https://www.inoreader.com/article/3a9c6e74107e8833] See also: [[Surah Luqman]]
# [https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6WGS8uLF27/?igsh=dWgzeHQ4bnQzcXY5 toddler lunch]
# [https://www.instagram.com/p/C4F3BmoI2HM/?igsh=MXg0Zm1zNm44aDFvbQ== reacting to rudeness]
# [https://www.instagram.com/p/C3dctSuyHAg/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== when Ibbu’s angry]
# [https://www.instagram.com/p/C3NX6MctskR/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Sultan Mahmud’s wise words on tarbiyya]
# [https://www.instagram.com/p/C3NX6MctskR/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Sultan Mahmud’s wise words on tarbiyya]
# https://www.beginlearning.com/parent-resources/how-to-teach-a-child-to-read/
# https://www.beginlearning.com/parent-resources/how-to-teach-a-child-to-read/
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== For Ibbu ==
Dear Ibbu
“My dearest Ibbu, It feels surreal to be writing this down at this moment as you’re currently settling into your new reality, our new normal. I can’t find enough words to explain how I feel right now, knowing that now our communications, interactions, and connections will be limited to mostly virtual reality. In this blessed month of Ramadan, we embark on this new journey, together as one. I must be honest with you, buddy; this is as brand new to me as it is to you. One thing I do know is that Allah is not bound by time and space, and neither is my love for you. May you never feel alone and distant from me. May you find peace in knowing that Allah is Al Wadud, the Loving, and I pray for you to grow up with the love of Allah and guided by the Quran and the Sunnah of Rasulillah SAW.”
"I try to be brave and strong for you.
But the anger, the grief lurks beneath
But I breathe and say “God is sufficient for me”
This is His decree
I entrust you in His care
May He keep you joyful
Guard you from harm
Make you of the righteous
The ones who pray
The ones who remember Him
The ones who love Him
The ones who benefit others
The ones who are pure of heart
May He beautify your soul, as He has made you outwardly so
May He make you from among His saints
And grant you a good End
You are my everything, my heart.
Forgive me " [https://www.andshethrived.com/post/for-jameel]


== [[prophetic|Prophetic]] [[parenting|Parenting]] <> [[renon|Renon]] [[annabawa|Annabawa]] ==
== [[prophetic|Prophetic]] [[parenting|Parenting]] <> [[renon|Renon]] [[annabawa|Annabawa]] ==

Revision as of 22:06, 23 May 2025

mahana bear family with Ibbu.

babyjabi.com > Ibrahim.BabyJabi.com

See also Ibrahim, and Abraham

Recent additions to the category

  1. ibbu/its_story_time (other stories on YT)
  2. ibbu/try
  3. ibbu/Raising Securely Attached Children

Notes and Links

  1. The Secret to Raising Good Kids | Dr Shadee Elmasry Safina Society
  2. Black children's advocate - Shaykh Adeyinka Mendes's wife Rukayat Yakub
    Black Muslims and Black Muslim cultures are rendered invisible in so many Islamic children’s texts and multimedia productions. [1]
  3. When to start expecting privacy with my toddler? [2]
  4. Guardianship Will [3]
  5. https://old.reddit.com/r/SingleDads/comments/1juvtmo/dads_when_you_find_it_hard_to_explain_to_your/ (dad motivation)
  6. https://www.instagram.com/p/DGltdQFox4c/ (dad motivation)
  7. 2025.03.17 ChatGPT's lessons and ideas from the Quran [4]
  8. heartwarming daughter and dad moment
  9. Hadiths 2025.02.17
    1. https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2015/10/28/sufficient-sin-neglect-dependents/ hadith/neglecting dependents
    2. https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2013/02/23/love-allah-assured-each-other/
    3. https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2014/06/13/middle-shaban-forgive/
  10. Continuous Learning Development was live December 27, 2020 on the Disease of the Heart [5] [6]; Psychological Wellbeing: The Islamic Perspective by CLD_Institute
  11. https://muslimmatters.org/2023/11/28/podcast-muslim-fatherhood-masculinity-beyond-the-manosphere-sh-mohammad-elshinawy/
    1. 14th min https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyhadithonline/2015/10/28/sufficient-sin-neglect-dependents/
  12. I Met My Dad After 23 Years! - Mohammad Shoaib (Full Podcast) IlmFeed Podcast https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0P15l9a52G0
    1. Divorced at 1 [7]... built up resentment and feelings of abandonment, internalized messages after 15/16 years old... timestamp 20:29 - Reconciliation with absent father through Islam
    2. Bad interaction at 13 causing anxiety for further reconciliation...
    3. everydaydepths_official: For the dads who lead with strength and heart-thank you ❤️ [8]
    4. not doing a sunnah to incur a haram/sin... [9]
    5. https://www.youtube.com/@dadhoodDH/videos
    6. Mohammad Shoaib's Guide to Father and Child Bonding in Islam | Raising Believers Xtra Fatima Barkatulla
  13. 😍💕I love you and I trust you✨💞 (cute baby girl)
  14. tafsir for kids ages 7-12
  15. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBRloh0kqdQ&t=28s Ep 4 - The Importance of Saving - Raising Financially Literate Children with Wahed
  16. https://quranco.uk/blogs/quran-blog-media/fatherhood-and-10-key-verses-from-surah-luqman [10] See also: Surah Luqman
  17. toddler lunch
  18. reacting to rudeness
  19. when Ibbu’s angry
  20. Sultan Mahmud’s wise words on tarbiyya
  21. https://www.beginlearning.com/parent-resources/how-to-teach-a-child-to-read/
    1. Hanyar koyar wa yaro yin karatu mafi inganci ita ce a maida hankali kan furtarwa. Abinda za a iya yi yau da kullum kuma mai nishaɗantar da yaron.
      The most effective ways to teach a child to read focus on phonics, can be done every day, and are fun for the child. [11]
  22. 5 tips for brushing teeth
  23. Communication signs for ibbu https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3H9jqFrDRe/?igsh=MTNjN3U5aWNydW43dA==
  24. https://www.instagram.com/p/C29lIo7o21K/?igsh=MWM2OHpucW04ZnNrNA== raising ibbu according to his age 2+
  25. choking prevention tips https://www.instagram.com/p/C27tFdJLG6f/?igsh=OTlxbWl0cTdmMTAx
  26. Why make ibbu socialize age 4 https://www.instagram.com/p/C2x0b9WPD9T/?igsh=cDJjajM1bnFtOGtn
  27. ‪9 Lessons You NEED To Teach Your Son: https://x.com/habithustler_/status/1752957641297453100‬
  28. Parenting pep talk, words of encouragement https://www.instagram.com/p/C2D1r1vKC80/?igsh=ZWJxOHMxdGtvbWgy
  29. Reasons for Ibbu meltdowns crying https://www.instagram.com/p/C2xtzQ1SIRX/?igsh=MXNmMG92eGkzcWYzZw==
  30. Age appropriate modesty for ibbu https://www.instagram.com/reel/C2sqbvfSRHI/?igsh=MXJ0djF5eXh5bDVka
  31. Possible Ibbu podcast https://www.instagram.com/mrshashimi?igsh=N2l3dWNwOWhqZXpl
  32. Important role for fathers, for Ibbu https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1m3jIXNeyo/
  33. Muslim kids TV for school education curriculum
  34. Muslim education fair
  35. Children are an amanah https://www.instagram.com/p/C2WbpjdAQQV/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
  36. The name Ibrahim according to Imam Al-Qurtubi comes from two words merged together ‘Ab’ and ‘Rahim’ (a compassionate father), referring to Ibrahim's AS compassion with children [12]
  37. hadith/becoming a parent
  38. https://fluttering-seaplane-9dd.notion.site/Ibbu-7125ed218b3a4074a107b0d00a200ced?pvs=4
  39. Ibbu coloring https://www.instagram.com/p/C1hF9sJtJcW/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== raising merciful children
  40. https://quranx.com/tafsirs/31.33
  41. https://www.experian.com/help/minor-request.html
  42. 4 prophetic parenting Sunnah when correcting kids/ibbu
  43. https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1Y0nE-LU5_/?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
  44. https://wisconsinmuslimjournal.org/https-www-soundvision-com-article-online-islamic-learning-platforms-for-muslim-kids/ [13]
  45. How to teach your child the Qur’ān…with Abdirahman Ikar - insta
  46. raising critical thinkers
  47. Being a toddler is tough
  48. https://eastbaymhs.wixsite.com/ebmh/resources-1 [14]
  49. https://www.journeywithinas.com/collections
    1. 3hr June 25th 2023 Training Program: Your guide for an Islamic preschool program Zoom [15] [16]
  50. https://academy.adamsworld.org/collections/courses
  51. https://watch.adamsworldapp.com/
  52. 6 Muslim father responsibilities
  53. The first 7-7-7 stages of one's life via purification of the heart [17]
  54. Make Ramadan special https://www.instagram.com/p/Cq3uQTzvUjX/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
  55. Age appropriate chore ideas[18]
  56. 20 traits every great father must possess via Jamila [19]
  57. in front of child
  58. https://www.sciencealert.com/cool-new-experiment-explains-why-we-evolved-curly-hair
  59. https://twitter.com/gechife/status/1619964340291141634?s=46&t=3P9KWMZXaHpZAxqadXGeiQ
  60. Golden Principles for Raising Children || Ustadh Muhammad Tim Humble
  61. It's common for young kids to prefer one parent Over another.
  62. The Benefits of Teaching a Child the Sunnah with its Proofs
  63. teach Ibbu to scream...
  64. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CkgJhMeA4Ik/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= HOW WE GET OUR 4 YR OLD TO RIDE HER BIKE WITHOUT TRAINING WHEELS IN 3 DAYS!
  65. https://www.instagram.com/p/ClborR7vIf1/?igshid=YzdkMWQ2MWU= A Simple Guide to Age-Appropriate Consequences
  66. What Is A Khaleel of Allah Shaykh Mokhtar Maghraoui
  67. https://www.almadina.org/studio/videos/what-is-a-khaleel-of-allah-shaykh-mokhtar-maghraoui

For Ibbu

Dear Ibbu

“My dearest Ibbu, It feels surreal to be writing this down at this moment as you’re currently settling into your new reality, our new normal. I can’t find enough words to explain how I feel right now, knowing that now our communications, interactions, and connections will be limited to mostly virtual reality. In this blessed month of Ramadan, we embark on this new journey, together as one. I must be honest with you, buddy; this is as brand new to me as it is to you. One thing I do know is that Allah is not bound by time and space, and neither is my love for you. May you never feel alone and distant from me. May you find peace in knowing that Allah is Al Wadud, the Loving, and I pray for you to grow up with the love of Allah and guided by the Quran and the Sunnah of Rasulillah SAW.”

"I try to be brave and strong for you.

But the anger, the grief lurks beneath

But I breathe and say “God is sufficient for me”


This is His decree

I entrust you in His care

May He keep you joyful

Guard you from harm

Make you of the righteous

The ones who pray

The ones who remember Him

The ones who love Him

The ones who benefit others

The ones who are pure of heart

May He beautify your soul, as He has made you outwardly so

May He make you from among His saints

And grant you a good End


You are my everything, my heart.

Forgive me " [20]

Prophetic Parenting <> Renon Annabawa

Eight (8) hadiths on how to treat children via @muslimparenthood <>

  1. with love <> tare da ƙauna: It was narrated from Sa'eed bin Abu Rashid that: They had gone out with the Prophet SAW to a meal

5 Hadith to help your children take a step towards understanding the fundamental value of family! via @[21] <>

  1. 💭 Maintaining family ties is a sign of faith
  2. 💭 Seek to resolve family disagreements
  3. 💭 Be generous with family
  4. 💭 Learn about your family history
  5. 💭 Be kind towards your family

Newborn Sunnahs

  1. Riyad Al-Salihin (30)- Fajar Khatira by Shaykh Arsalan Haque via Plano Masjid
  2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tahnik

Archery

On Children by Kahlil Gibran - Poem

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.


The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He

bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.

Let your bending in the Archer's hand be for gladness;

For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

Archery Links

An Islamic UK archery project

Other Islamic Parenting Links and Resources

Noha Content

  1. Interview with Noha Al Shugairi, Co-Author of “Positive Parenting in the Muslim Home [22]” by Najwa Kabbara
  2. PDTV with Noha Alshugairi
  3. Positive Discipline with Noha Al Shugairi | Powerful Parenting Speaker Series by Noor Kids
  4. Other latest YT content here.

Other links

  1. 529 College Savings Plan https://twitter.com/fortelabs/status/1392672209424949249
  2. https://www.instagram.com/reel/CkvyfTuNf7S/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= good husband == good dad
  3. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ckd6ZRGMDFn/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= clutter sensory overload
  4. https://www.yourmadrasah.com/ [23] [24]
  5. "Work on preserving and protecting your families, because good families require hard work and sacrifice and compromise and mercy and love and time, and always make dua to Allah to grant you a blessed family." --Sh @YasirQadhi Link to the reflection: https://quranreflect.com/posts/10257 https://twitter.com/quran_reflect/status/1589646891708739587
  6. What every parent should know about pornography.
  7. Mufti Menk reading a story to his kids :)
  8. Khalil center "Prophetic Parenting : Dr Hooman K & Dr Kashmala Q July 15 2022" on YouTube
  9. "How to Raise Muslim Children | Webinar" on YouTube
  10. "Keys to Prophetic Parenting" playlist on YouTube
  11. https://imamghazali.co/collections/store/products/futuwwah-sacred-manhood [25]
  12. https://imamghazali.co/products/study-shamail?utm_source=clubhouse [26]
  13. With The Heart In Mind Kindle Edition by Mikaeel Ahmed Smith
  14. MULTILINGUAL MONTESSORI HOME! Raising a Multilingual Toddler the Montessori At Home Way! [27]
  15. 4 stages of life by Ustadha Hosai
  16. 15 Spanish phrases [28]
  17. Sound Carrot is a new website, calling itself 'the best place to discover the greatest kids podcasts’. The name comes from owner Tristan’s ten year-old daughter. “The concept was born out of the frustration my daughter experienced with mainstream podcast apps and the inability of any of them to provide a children’s tag that isn’t dominated by parenting shows.” [29]
  18. Omar & Hana | Compilation 59 Mins | lslamic Songs for Kids | Nasheed | Cartoon for Muslim
  19. https://www.instagram.com/p/ChuXicqLSn9/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
  20. How to get kids to pray without nagging...
  21. the cutest table lamp [30][31]
  22. Prophet's Hadiths around children [32]
  23. parenting skills playlist
  24. Hosai's parenting course for Quranic https://courses.getquranic.com/courses/parents
  25. Hosai's Zaytuna's Parenting video [33]
  26. Dawud Walid Zaytuna's Parenting Video [34]
  27. islamichomeeducation: More of our beloved Prophet’s SAW loves for your kids to learn during Rabi al Awwal. To know him is to love him and what a fine example he is for humanity.📚 Book recommendation: Muhammad SAW: How He Can Make You Extraordinary By Hesham Al-Awadi [35]
  28. “My parents loved me to the best of my ability and the ability that Allah gave them. I’m also loving my children to the best of my abilities and I know there are things that I lack but I hope and pray that my children can forgive me for any of my shortcomings.” --via a great twitter thread on parenting!
  29. Lebron inspirations Nike's Father Time 1Nike's Father Time 2[36]Beats
  30. Quranic Ocean's reelection around the purpose of the parenting struggle https://quranreflect.com/posts/15835
  31. the Sunnah of childbirth by Suhaib webb https://youtu.be/miSlWceC6EU
  32. https://checkout.discoveru.online/products/mominah-2022 (Ibbu/mominah)
  33. Noor Kids 3 etiquette of parents while teaching quran to their kids
  34. yahya_adel_ibrahim Parenting #OnTheSunnah
  35. boss baby jacket [37][38]
  36. https://twitter.com/quran_reflect/status/1588184229422125056
  37. 5 WAYS TO RAISE CHILDREN THAT ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT ISLAM
  38. Analogy for LGBTQ/Gay/Lesbian/Same-sex/bisexual attraction... https://www.instagram.com/p/Ci-SSifDhSl/