Dadin Kowa (Everyone’s Enjoyment) is a Nigerian drama series. The series explores the everyday life of the northern Nigerian fictional town, Dadin Kowa. The town faces a growing need for police protection as an influx of refugees and threats of crime and violence provoke uncertainty and fear among its residents. Conflicts arise in the families of Malam Kabiru and Malam Musa, while problems with friends, employment, and potential love interests challenge the younger generation, which is represented by Nazir, A. K., Badaru, Dantani, and Alawiyya, among others. Dadin Kowa, which began in 2014, is an ongoing series that explores the community life of the Hausa people and culture.
=== Parental Involvement in Hausa Marriages ===
In traditional Hausa families, parents continue to arrange the marriages of their sons. In the rural areas in particular, the practice of arranged marriages remains prevalent, with some parents continuing to choose the brides for their sons at birth. In urban areas, young men and women typically choose who they wish to marry, although they seek the approval of their parents. Even after the man and woman agree to marry, and even if the marriage has been arranged by both sets of parents, according to traditional marriage customs, the groom’s parents will then formally meet with the bride’s family to seek permission. During the meeting, the families agree on the terms of the bride price, which would be at minimum rubu dinar ‘a quarter kilogram of gold’. A marriage without a bride price or some arrangement for a bride price is considered null and void. In many cases, the groom’s family pays the bride price. However, in auren sadaka ‘a charity marriage’, the bride price will be provided by the father or guardian of the bride.
=== Family Structure and Housing Design ===
In this video, Nazir’s mother waits to talk with Nazir in the courtyard of their house. Traditional Hausa housing design reflects the Hausa patriarchal family structure. The design prioritizes privacy as one moves from the exterior to the interior of the housing area. The men usually live in the forecourt (kofar gida) and gather with other male members of the family near the entrance or in exterior areas. Women typically meet and reside in the inner court, or cikin gida. The shigifa is a space between these separate gendered quarters where the women may meet with male members of the family. In contemporary housing design, living quarters and social spaces tend to retain their gendered designations.
=== Hausa Wedding Ceremonies ===
The wedding ceremony unfolds in different steps, alternately involving the groom, the bride, and their families or friends. Among these steps includes the daurin aure, the traditional religious ceremony where the bride and groom exchange their vows, and the chief imam will bless the marriage. On the wedding day, family and friends come together to celebrate the marrying couple. Another aspect of the wedding is when the groom’s family seeks to kamun amarya ‘catch the bride’ by negotiating “a price” for the bride from the bride’s friends. Traditional Hausa weddings also include a female-only affair, with the bride and her female family and friends taking part in the sa lalle or wuni, during which the women get henna designs on their hands and legs. Kai amarya, another traditional part of the wedding ceremony, is when the bride’s family and friends escort the bride to her new home. The accompanying image shows the Nigerian president’s daughter Zahra Buhari encircled by her bridesmaids in matching dresses at part of her wedding celebration.
==Glossary==
# a bar maganan nan (lit: leave this talk) stop talking about this
# Dan ankon (lit: son of anchor) wedding dress
# faranta wa mahaifinka rai (lit: whiten father mind) make your father happy
# La ilaha illallah Muhammadan Rasulallahi Salallahu alayhi wa sallam (from Arabic) There is no deity worthy of worship except Allah, and Muhammad, peace and blessings of God be upon he who is the messenger of God
# ni nake daure maka gindi (lit: I am tying your butt down) I am taking your side
# wuyanka ya yi kauri (lit: your neck has become thick) you have become stubborn
# zubar ma ni da hawaye (lit: pour tears for me) weep because of me
Dadin Kowa (Everyone’s Enjoyment) is a Nigerian drama series. The series explores the everyday life of the northern Nigerian fictional town, Dadin Kowa. The town faces a growing need for police protection as an influx of refugees and threats of crime and violence provoke uncertainty and fear among its residents. Conflicts arise in the families of Malam Kabiru and Malam Musa, while problems with friends, employment, and potential love interests challenge the younger generation, which is represented by Nazir, A. K., Badaru, Dantani, and Alawiyya, among others. Dadin Kowa, which began in 2014, is an ongoing series that explores the community life of the Hausa people and culture.
Parental Involvement in Hausa Marriages
In traditional Hausa families, parents continue to arrange the marriages of their sons. In the rural areas in particular, the practice of arranged marriages remains prevalent, with some parents continuing to choose the brides for their sons at birth. In urban areas, young men and women typically choose who they wish to marry, although they seek the approval of their parents. Even after the man and woman agree to marry, and even if the marriage has been arranged by both sets of parents, according to traditional marriage customs, the groom’s parents will then formally meet with the bride’s family to seek permission. During the meeting, the families agree on the terms of the bride price, which would be at minimum rubu dinar ‘a quarter kilogram of gold’. A marriage without a bride price or some arrangement for a bride price is considered null and void. In many cases, the groom’s family pays the bride price. However, in auren sadaka ‘a charity marriage’, the bride price will be provided by the father or guardian of the bride.
Family Structure and Housing Design
In this video, Nazir’s mother waits to talk with Nazir in the courtyard of their house. Traditional Hausa housing design reflects the Hausa patriarchal family structure. The design prioritizes privacy as one moves from the exterior to the interior of the housing area. The men usually live in the forecourt (kofar gida) and gather with other male members of the family near the entrance or in exterior areas. Women typically meet and reside in the inner court, or cikin gida. The shigifa is a space between these separate gendered quarters where the women may meet with male members of the family. In contemporary housing design, living quarters and social spaces tend to retain their gendered designations.
Hausa Wedding Ceremonies
The wedding ceremony unfolds in different steps, alternately involving the groom, the bride, and their families or friends. Among these steps includes the daurin aure, the traditional religious ceremony where the bride and groom exchange their vows, and the chief imam will bless the marriage. On the wedding day, family and friends come together to celebrate the marrying couple. Another aspect of the wedding is when the groom’s family seeks to kamun amarya ‘catch the bride’ by negotiating “a price” for the bride from the bride’s friends. Traditional Hausa weddings also include a female-only affair, with the bride and her female family and friends taking part in the sa lalle or wuni, during which the women get henna designs on their hands and legs. Kai amarya, another traditional part of the wedding ceremony, is when the bride’s family and friends escort the bride to her new home. The accompanying image shows the Nigerian president’s daughter Zahra Buhari encircled by her bridesmaids in matching dresses at part of her wedding celebration.
Glossary
a bar maganan nan (lit: leave this talk) stop talking about this
Dan ankon (lit: son of anchor) wedding dress
faranta wa mahaifinka rai (lit: whiten father mind) make your father happy
La ilaha illallah Muhammadan Rasulallahi Salallahu alayhi wa sallam (from Arabic) There is no deity worthy of worship except Allah, and Muhammad, peace and blessings of God be upon he who is the messenger of God
ni nake daure maka gindi (lit: I am tying your butt down) I am taking your side
wuyanka ya yi kauri (lit: your neck has become thick) you have become stubborn
zubar ma ni da hawaye (lit: pour tears for me) weep because of me